SOULMATES
are THE SPECIAL PEOPLE in our lives… People who we have shared previous
lives with, who we have loved, and helped and strove towards
understanding and bonding with. Soul mates are People who when we meet,
we feel a connection, a rapport and a sense of familiarity. We feel
comfortable with these people and the relationship we share is usually
on a POSITIVE LEVEL. While you may experience some friction and a few
problems the negativity is easily resolved and, once understood, serves
to help both of you to learn identical lessons. In my opinion I see 4
distinctly different types of soul mates. Each has a unique set of
characteristics that makes them unmistakable from those others who come
into my life. LET’S begin with the most challenging first and end with
the general conception of soul mate…
TEACHER
SOULMATES, these folks are usually the most difficult soul mate
relationship we have. I believe on the other side these souls agreed to
help us learn an uncomfortable lesson, we agreed to work with and
experience this lesson for our soul’s growth. These folks volunteered to
be the villain or that ROUGH teacher for us. We sometimes have problems
understand the connection, or the love, when they challenge us so
constantly and we have difficulty achieving rapport with these people.
They force us into growth situations and make us often very
uncomfortable with where we are so we are forced to change, they rarely
stay in our lives forever but are forever remembered as…””??? IF that
person had not done ????….. I would not be or be doing … THIS now..……””
COMPANION
SOULMATES are people who are going to help us accomplish a goal and are
here to assist us with a SPECIAL purpose. Their help is sometimes a
chance encounter, a comment made, a smile, a kind word, a connection
when you think you cannot go forward another step. They help you in
various ways when you need it most. They offer a mutual gift of
learning, sharing and help even in a brief encounter.
We
meet companion soul mates every day in a variety of situations and
circumstances. You recognize them as the stranger or acquaintance who
offers you good advice about a problem or just listens when you need to
sound off. They are there when your car breaks down, when we need a
teacher to learn, Sometimes just when we need a quarter for the
telephone, or when we need a smile to brighten our day, or someone to
make eye contact so that we know we are being seen.
These
soul mates are the ENCOURAGERS who help us to TRY something new or
different. Sometimes they come as a boss who appreciates you and these
are the people in your life who you feel good about and who assist you
in feeling better about yourself.
We
have spent a brief time with these folks and there is not usually a
SERIOUS bond between you and the present association you have with them
now…. I think that in previous lifetimes perhaps we helped these souls
and now they are returning the favor. These soul mates rarely are in
your life forever but were there when you needed their connection to
assist you. I believe that these souls can, if we work towards a more
lasting relationship this lifetime become in another lifetime TWIN SOUL
MATES:
TWIN
SOULMATES are people who have shared a special bond of friendship and
love with in many lifetimes. You feel that complete, natural and open
energy with them. Meeting a twin soul mate is like running into a good
friend you have not seen in years. There is a connection, and
comfortable feeling and you almost seem to pick up the relationship
right where it left off in a previous lifetime. These folks have the
connection with you and a feeling of continuing something comes when you
meet.
We
recognize a twin soul mate as someone with all the characteristics of a
COMPANION soul mate but with a much stronger and more lasting bond
between you. Twin soul mates usually are close family members, special
friends, and people who understand you completely and do not judge you
the same way others do.
There
is very often a spiritual and almost psychic connection with this soul
mate. Very often we do not even need words to communicate with them
because your souls are in tune on telepathic levels and you almost
intuitively know their feelings. We look at these people and smile and
feel good.
Your
life experiences often parallel the life experiences of your twin soul
mate. Together you help each other in many different ways to grow and
learn and your friendship becomes even stronger this lifetime.
Your
present relationship usually lasts from several years to an ent8ire
lifetime. IF you part, you do it in a positive way and value the time,
energy and the friendship you shared with them. You have many of these
people around you and all it requires is to trust, be open to being a
friend and this person becomes so much more.
WE
OFTEN MARRY THIS soul mate and many of us wonder what is missing
because we are sometimes looking for a TWIN FLAME SOULMATE …and do not
appreciate the gift we are given with this tremendous connection.
TWIN
FLAME SOULMATES are not there each and every lifetime for us. SOME
lifetimes we must learn to care for self, be self sufficient and not
bond into this strong and passionate WE are ONE energy losing our sense
of who we are as an individual. This is the one and only CONNECTED part
of yourself soul, it is almost as if you are ½ and this person is the
other ½..
BUT,
as I Said, this is NOT FOR EVERY lifetime and the downside to this soul
mate is usually that one person disappears into the other person as
they join lives. This is the one path, one way, one unit energy. Also,
Living without this person is very hard if not impossible when one or
the other passes over to the other side first.
There
is a deep and meaningful spiritual bond that creates a special rapport
with this person. A rather electric current of energy flows between you
and you know on some level that you have known this person forever and
that YOU BELONG with them and you cannot be apart. Your soul recognizes
and remembers your twin flame soul mate. There is only THIS one soul
which is your perfect counterpart and together there is created a
special magic between the two of you. You will not totally experience
this with anyone else and this is NOT to be experienced in every
lifetime. AND that is as it is intended to be for our soul’s growth.
So
the problem with our soul recognizing that there is this type of
relationship is that we do not always meet our TWIN FLAME each lifetime.
Sometimes we search and search and pass up wonderful relationships that
have much growth, learning and joy within that union looking for this
merging of spirit.
Please
realize that each lifetime carries energy, this energy is your life
path and sometimes your path is to assist others, be a healer, teacher,
guide, pioneer, leader, warrior, spiritual advisor for others, whatever,
and this path must during many lifetimes be done without the twin flame
soul mate being there to distract you from your path..
This
does not mean we must be without love; on the contrary realize that in
every relationship there is a learning, an lesson and the ability to
turn this into a new and closer connection between your two souls.
Many
of my clients and friends are companion soul mates and a few are twin
soul mates. The trick of this is to make each relationship that we are
in the best it can be. We must honor, nurture and allow our
relationships with others to grown and become the most empowering for
both souls that is possible in order to reconnect in other incarnations
with these wonderful souls and have even more of them come to us when we
need assistance in this lifetime and the next..
Remember
that with pain sometimes comes growth, but LOVE should NOT BE PAINFUL
MOST OF THE TIME. IF it hurts too much that is a very good indication
that this is NOT a soul mate who is here to stay a lifetime with you.
WE
have angels and guides and much help here in this incarnation. Remember
that you can be a SOULMATE for many people in your life and in doing
this; you will attract those others from your past lives to you.
WORK
at being a good friend, teacher, neighbor and Human being and you will
find the thousands of connections out there waiting for you. AND for
those of you, who believe you have found your TWIN FLAME, remember that
this is NOT A PAINFUL relationship, but a joyous union as 2 souls join
into one to encourage growth and good for the world and each
other………. AND all soul mates Are here to help us grow …
Sunday, 29 June 2014
Sunday, 22 June 2014
Brain Sex With Alejandro Manzano
Ok so I did not have Brain Sex With Alejandro Manzano in real time but the meaning behind my dreams can be deciphered partly with…. (PS I haven't chronicled my dreams because 1. I am very shy. 2. I am concerned about rebuttal towards spiritual and mental connections with someone 3. Google might slap sexually related content) But I MIGHT soon ;-)
"Man and woman naturally complement each other…" Men and women don't complete each other they complement each other.
That is why I put up a pic of the YINGYANG -
The concept of yin and yang:
The Taijitu and concept of the Zhou period reach into family and gender relations. Yin is female and yang is male. They fit together as two parts of a whole. The Taijitu is one of the oldest and best-known life symbols in the world, but few understand its full meaning. It represents one of the most fundamental and profound theories of ancient Taoist philosophy. At its heart are the two poles of existence, which are opposite but complementary. The light, white Yang moving up blends into the dark, black Yin moving down. Yin and Yang are dependent opposing forces that flow in a natural cycle, always seeking balance. Though they are opposing, they are not in opposition to one another. As part of the Tao, they are merely two aspects of a single reality. Each contains the seed of the other, which is why we see a black spot of Yin in the white Yang and vice versa. They do not merely replace each other but actually become each other through the constant flow of the universe.
Our brains are hardwired to find a complementing physiological DNA structure, another human who is compatible to each of our unique and individual traits including personality, beliefs, values etc, as well as the deeper constructs which make up our souls, our life essence. So even though I strongly dislike the concept of “You complete me”, because that would insinuate that an individual is not complete on their own, perhaps in some way it is true. I believe that much of our journey in life is to become complete and whole within ourselves before joining with another whole and complete half.
The Chinese also support these ideology with the concept of yin and yang:
The Taijitu and concept of the Zhou
period reach into family and gender relations. Yin is female and yang is
male. They fit together as two parts of a whole. The
Taijitu is one of the oldest and best-known life symbols in the world,
but few understand its full meaning. It represents one of the most
fundamental and profound theories of ancient Taoist philosophy. At its
heart are the two poles of existence, which are opposite but
complementary. The light, white Yang moving up blends into the dark,
black Yin moving down. Yin and Yang are dependent opposing forces that
flow in a natural cycle, always seeking balance. Though they are
opposing, they are not in opposition to one another. As part of the Tao,
they are merely two aspects of a single reality. Each contains the seed
of the other, which is why we see a black spot of Yin in the white Yang
and vice versa. They do not merely replace each other but actually
become each other through the constant flow of the universe.
- See more at: http://www.viendamaria.com/2011/03/brain-sex-why-men-and-women-need-each-other/#sthash.ZXt5ZEmS.dpufThe Chinese also support these ideology with the concept of yin and yang: The Taijitu and concept of the Zhou period reach into family and gender relations. Yin is female and yang is male. They fit together as two parts of a whole. The Taijitu is one of the oldest and best-known life symbols in the world, but few understand its full meaning. It represents one of the most fundamental and profound theories of ancient Taoist philosophy. At its heart are the two poles of existence, which are opposite but complementary. The light, white Yang moving up blends into the dark, black Yin moving down. Yin and Yang are dependent opposing forces that flow in a natural cycle, always seeking balance. Though they are opposing, they are not in opposition to one another. As part of the Tao, they are merely two aspects of a single reality. Each contains the seed of the other, which is why we see a black spot of Yin in the white Yang and vice versa. They do not merely replace each other but actually become each other through the constant flow of the universe. - See more at: http://www.viendamaria.com/2011/03/brain-sex-why-men-and-women-need-each-other/#sthash.ZXt5ZEmS.dpuf
MASCULINE:
Left brain: I am the left brain. I am a scientist. A mathematician. I
love the familiar. I categorise. I am accurate. Linear. Analytical.
Strategic. I am practical. Always in control. A master of words and
language. Realistic. I calculate equations and play with numbers. I am
order. I am logic. I know exactly who I am.
FEMININE:
Right brand: I am the right brain. I am creativity. A free spirit. I am
passion. Yearning. Sensuality. I am the sound of roaring laughter. I am
taste. The feeling of sand beneath bare feat. I am movement. Vivid
colors. I am the urge to paint on an empty canvas. I am boundless
imagination. Art. Poetry. I sense. I feel. I am everything I wanted to
be.
- See more at: http://www.viendamaria.com/2011/03/brain-sex-why-men-and-women-need-each-other/#sthash.ZXt5ZEmS.dpuf
MASCULINE:
Left brain: I am the left brain. I am a scientist. A mathematician. I
love the familiar. I categorise. I am accurate. Linear. Analytical.
Strategic. I am practical. Always in control. A master of words and
language. Realistic. I calculate equations and play with numbers. I am
order. I am logic. I know exactly who I am.
FEMININE:
Right brand: I am the right brain. I am creativity. A free spirit. I am
passion. Yearning. Sensuality. I am the sound of roaring laughter. I am
taste. The feeling of sand beneath bare feat. I am movement. Vivid
colors. I am the urge to paint on an empty canvas. I am boundless
imagination. Art. Poetry. I sense. I feel. I am everything I wanted to
be.
- See more at: http://www.viendamaria.com/2011/03/brain-sex-why-men-and-women-need-each-other/#sthash.ZXt5ZEmS.dpufSunday, 1 June 2014
Alejandro Manzano Eyes
Whoever said beauty is in the eyes of the beholder was spot on. Nothing turns me and resonates with me as much as a guys deep gaze. Beautiful soulful eyes just melt me Everytime!
In dedication to Alejandro Manzano and his soulful Eyes, I post Peter Gabriel's In Your Eyes…..
Sending positive waves of blessings and love to Alejandro Manzano today.
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